The Truth of Your Heart Leads to Your Love

By Saskia Roell

The question is, "Do I stay or do I go?"

I ask my Soul for a sign, a very clear sign, to show me to take off my wedding band. That sign will be the green light to leave my marriage. A marriage that was wonderful until one day my Soul told me that my destiny was elsewhere.

I know the answer in my heart. Although my wedding band from Josh is still on my finger, my heart and mind are in love with a man who lives in Taiwan on the other side of the Black Sea. Am I really considering leaving my marriage for a man I've known less than a week?

When I looked Syb in the eyes when we first met during a field hockey tournament in Jakarta, my Soul whispered that he was the "one," and that we were soul mates. I recognized it instantly, and that day my world turned upside down.

I asked my Soul one night to give me a very clear sign that I could not miss. "I need a sign that shows me that I should take off my wedding ring." I would then know that I had to leave my marriage. I knew this request would leave no room for guesswork.

I forget my question for a while and focus my attention on my job, which I dearly love. I am a teacher at the Dutch Elementary School in Singapore and love my children passionately.

Before I consider a divorce, Syb tells me I have to try to make my marriage to Josh work. Is there anything left to try, though, once my Soul has told me to listen and leave? I agree to try my best to focus on my marriage, but I find it's almost impossible.

I deeply feel the pain and guilt I've caused to all of us, and my heart aches for Syb and Josh at the same time. I love my husband, but I'm in love with Syb. That is both the problem and the answer.

Then the day arrives that I know in my heart I have to leave my marriage. I will fly to Holland and divorce Josh before I meet with Syb in Taiwan. It's the hardest decision I've ever made, but I do it anyway.

I have my answer when I take my suitcase out of the cupboard, and there is no guesswork.

My suitcase is stacked on the top of the cupboard in our Singaporean home, so I have to climb a ladder to get to it high up on our bedroom wall near the ceiling.

While reaching for the suitcase from the top of the ladder, I feel stinging pain in my hand as I hear a loud bang. The ceiling fan has hit my left finger's wedding ring. And then it happens. In response to the flash of intense pain and without any thought, I instantly pull off my wedding band and it falls to the floor.

Climbing down the ladder, I stand and stare at the ring on the floor and my swollen finger, and then up at the ceiling fan. Here I am, my wedding ring off my finger and my suitcase in hand.

My Soul's answer is very clear, but still I tremble...

When you listen to your Soul, you have to move out of your comfort zone and be willing to be out of your mind.

But bear in mind that you'll be led to your best destinies

About the Author:

Saskia Rell, of your Soul Guidance International, is a bestselling author and co-author with Jack Canfield & Deepak Chopra. She's also a highly respected Radio Show Host, International Speaker, and Soul Empowerment Coach. She's written a inspiring yet practical downloadable digital guide called "Your Giant Leap of Faith." Get your complimentary copy today.

How To Get Women To Date you - It's All About Inner Psychology

By Jon Sinn

Inner game means what happens inside your mind when you think about approaching women. This may seem like a trivial thing, but it spells the difference between learning how to get women to date you and being dateless for the rest of your life. There are many reasons why this is important for men aspiring to be girl magnets.

Pick up artists started out like average guys who can't approach women because of nerves. Dealing with inner psychology is a daily process, especially if you have insecurities. From the very beginning, fix your issues so that they don't destroy your chances of meeting women.

Your Frame of Mind

The right frame of mind will get you through a lot. With it, you can handle rejection. When you have a stable frame of mind and you can roll with the punches, you can become more confident. Confidence in a man is like aphrodisiac to women. Always remember that women like men who can be their best self without anxiety. Basically you're keeping away the things that make you unhappy with yourself.

Some programs overstress the inner game. It's actually the second most vital aspect of the game behind skills sets. Not including the skills, you won't get somewhere; but, your abilities will only do you so much good if the right frame of mind isn't in place.

Too Much Worrying About Inner Game

Some self-help practices can be detrimental to your confidence. If you read tons of self help books and you only learn about why you're the way you are, you won't progress. You're giving up hours and hours of your life reading self help books when you should be out there testing your skills.

Some self help books can mess with your mind, and force you to give a name to what you're suffering from. Some books actually don't give advice but rather tell you just how far gone you are in the self pity hole you dug for yourself.

The other problem is that reading too much self-help is a way of spinning your wheels. Plenty of people feel like it's addictive. What you're really doing is delaying action, and this is not good.

You find out the most about inner psychology by getting out and meeting ladies . Just like learning skills, you should spend a little time studying and plenty of time out there seeing how it works. This is the most excellent way to learn how to get women to date you.

About the Author:

Jon Sinn is the creator of the Seduction Roadmap, a groundbreaking program that teaches men all over the world how to seduce women.

Paris - A city flavored with romance

By Telma Fiwck

The hype created about this city of Paris, is totally worth it, as the best historical monuments and the combination of olden and modern day art can be witnessed here. Owing to its beauty in the night time, it is also called 'the city of lights'. A lover of art, a person with a romantic outlook would love Paris as his trip site.

The monuments and the museums are an evidence for the glorious history of the magic city. In the following sections, some of the best spots in Paris are talked about. Just like how Eiffel Tower has made a place in the minds of the people of the world, one would be surprised to know that most places in Paris are equally beautiful.

1. Louvre, the museum One of the best museums in the world, houses the best artifacts and paintings of the world, including 'Monalisa'. It is said that an art lover will find two days also insufficient to finish his tour of the museum. Such is its remarkable beauty.

2. Eiffel tower. Owing to the most remarkable sights from the top, this tower attracts thousands of tourists from all over the world. There are signs at the top of the tower, that point to the major cities of the world and this is one of the best features of the tower. The best time to visit the Eiffel tower is on a Friday night.

3. Arche de Triomphe The site of France's tomb of the Unknown Soldier, this monument was built by Napoleon in 1806, to honor his victories. Germans also associated themselves with the place during the Second World War. This location is one of the most famous streets of France.

4. The Seine. Being the only alive witness of the glorious history of the magic city, the river has on its banks the best architectural works, like the Place de la Concorde and the Petit Palais. The ride in the glass windowed boats on the Seine enables one to enjoy the exquisite beauty of the city.

5. Musee de Orsay. The best works associated with Fauvism, Symbolism, Romanticism and Impressionism are found here. A drink at the museum caf is also total 'value for money'. Once a railway station, the museum has amassed the best works of art to its credit. The arts belong to the period between 1848 and 1914.

6. Basilica de Sacre Coeur Designed by Paul Abadie, this cathedral was built between 1887 and 1914.It was constructed as a tribute to the Franco-Prussian war of 1870.Constructed in Byzantine style and employing the best mosaic work within, this stands to be an unusual church. The hilltop location adds to its beauty.

If you are a close follower of the progress in the field of fashion, you will be well aware of the fact that France holds a special seat in the world of fashion. With the top models of all the times having been associated with France, one can expect to get a glimpse of the latest trends in Paris.

The city of Paris being one of the most expensive places on the globe provides the tourist with many temptations and opportunities for an extravagant trip. Though a considerable amount of money is spent, every single penny is totally worth it as one cannot attach a price tag to the beauty of the historical city.

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How To Talk To Girls With Style

By Terrance Howard

Knowing how to approach girls is something many men want to know how to do in order to get their attention but fear of rejection usually stands in their way. Confidence plays a big part in getting a girls attention and there are tips on how to do this for the men out there. There is nothing to be lost by trying to connect with a lady and old outdated methods need not be used.

The fear of a girl saying no is one of the main reasons a guy will not even go up to them in the first place. It's this worry of rejection that stops them but if a man can get over this and simply walk over and chat then it soon goes away for them.

The problem with approaching anyone is that the guy is giving the girl their first impression of them, however it takes a few moments for someone to decide if they like someone, not a few seconds. Once this fear and hesitation is overcome then going over to the woman is easy.

There are a few things a man can keep in their mind when it comes to chatting to a lady and walking over to her. Eye contact is really important, during the walk over if possible and certainly once conversation has started. The reason that eye contact is so important is because it conveys confidence and this is something many women find attractive.

Smiling is something that may seem a silly thing to do or to some even a bit childish, an inane grin won't do the trick but a slight upturn of the corners of the mouth can work wonders. A slight smile shows the lady that a man is interested, it also gives her a chance to be able to respond either verbally or physically. If the lady smiles back then the guy knows he's in with a chance, if not he may wish to move on.

Many people don't take chances in life and those people are the ones who usually end up with very little to show for it. Taking chances is something that sees guys getting the girl they want, these men don't fear rejection, they take it on the chin, learn from it and move on. This positive approach means they will take more chances and be more likely to get the girl.

It may feel really painful if a girl rejects a guy right from the start but they have gained that experience, maybe they can look upon it and know where they went wrong and correct it for next time. Accepting rejection and moving on is all part of the learning process when it comes to girls.

Jokes and chat up lines are often shown as good ways on how to approach girls however this only ever seems to work in the movies. In the real world women like men to be natural, open and honest, not wise cracking fools with only one thing on their mind.

About the Author:

You can get helpful techniques and tips on how to approach girls if you know where to look. There is a FREE eBook available by visiting the website at http://www.datingtipsbyterrance.com today.

How To Trim Down Excess Weight By Following Rob Poulos' Methods

By Wilfred C. Gonzalez

If you want to know how much people crave to get a weight loss program that really works, consider how first Fat Burning Furnace, the ebook, has become popular.

Instead of jumping into the bandwagon and dwelling on the eat less work more school, this ebook focuses on letting you eat comfortably but still encouraging you to do a number of exercises.

Whenever you buy anything online, there is a constant feeling that you could be playing your steps into a scam. Fat Burning Furnace distances itself from that. You buy it via ClickBank and as a result, you are sure of a 2 month money back guarantee in case the worst comes.

The ebook will guide you in a different style from the usual programs which deal with weight loss. It was written by Rob Poulos and he suggests that anyone can do this without having to register at the local gym. The 45 minute cardio training will enhance metabolism while also helping you maintain a lean body.

The reason you would make use of Fat Burning Furnace is so that the diet plan can cut down your waist size in multiple ways. They all become one effective force.

Eating healthy ensures that you are ingesting less fat. You participate in short and intensive workouts which build lean muscle. The muscle mass ends up helping metabolism, which in turn allows you to burn body fat as it should.

This is more than mega feast today and switching you to a carrot and garlic diet tomorrow.

Just the way most other diet plans do, this plan works best if done in a way that attention is continuously given. One can enter a certain weight loss idea that helps create lifetime of sustained healthy eating and workouts. It is not the binge purge you get everywhere else. Most of those are superficial.

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Aside from losing weight, this writer also frequently shares writing on Fat Burning Furnace review and every other day diet reviews.