Start with these 6 tips. Try them and see if it helps. Then you can read a full flirting guide.
1. Trim your hair. Get a good haircut. Remove any unwanted facial hair. Guys, try waxing your chest, and ... er... a little lower, too.
2. Walk tall. Imagine a string is pulling from the top of your head, and lifting you off the ground, so you almost float along as you walk. This is a trick that comes from the Alexander Technique.
3. Have some interesting stories to tell. Don't brag, but leave little hints about impressive things you've done. Bait the other person into asking about these things. In fact, if you can tell a story that's mostly about something dumb you did, but it's spiked with little hints of impressive things you've accomplished, that will play very well.
4. Be playfully arrogant. But don't be a jerk. Act like you're the big kahuna, and that you'll make sure the other person gets taken care of. Ham it up, and they'll probably play along.
5. Look for any situation to flirt. If you have to bend down to tie your shoe, near someone interesting, say "don't get too excited, I'm not proposing." This is playful. Resist the temptation to be overly self-deprecating, though. It would be funny to say "Don't worry, I'm not proposing", but it wouldn't generate as much attraction.
6. Flirt with your body language. Be open to the other person, unless you're teasing them. Then you might use closed-off body language.
These 6 bits of advice should get you started. Hopefully they'll help. Then look for a flirting guide to finish off your flirting education.
1. Trim your hair. Get a good haircut. Remove any unwanted facial hair. Guys, try waxing your chest, and ... er... a little lower, too.
2. Walk tall. Imagine a string is pulling from the top of your head, and lifting you off the ground, so you almost float along as you walk. This is a trick that comes from the Alexander Technique.
3. Have some interesting stories to tell. Don't brag, but leave little hints about impressive things you've done. Bait the other person into asking about these things. In fact, if you can tell a story that's mostly about something dumb you did, but it's spiked with little hints of impressive things you've accomplished, that will play very well.
4. Be playfully arrogant. But don't be a jerk. Act like you're the big kahuna, and that you'll make sure the other person gets taken care of. Ham it up, and they'll probably play along.
5. Look for any situation to flirt. If you have to bend down to tie your shoe, near someone interesting, say "don't get too excited, I'm not proposing." This is playful. Resist the temptation to be overly self-deprecating, though. It would be funny to say "Don't worry, I'm not proposing", but it wouldn't generate as much attraction.
6. Flirt with your body language. Be open to the other person, unless you're teasing them. Then you might use closed-off body language.
These 6 bits of advice should get you started. Hopefully they'll help. Then look for a flirting guide to finish off your flirting education.
About the Author:
T.P. (PhD) is the author of "Flirting Decosntructed". Take his free flirting quiz and learn how to flirt at http://how2flirt.com
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