There are many ways to flirt with girls, but they all fall into three main categories.
You can say something flirty in a proactive manner.
Alternatively, you can appear to be much more spontaneous by waiting for her to say something that you are ready for, and then shooting back a flirty response that takes them by surprise.
And you can bait them into doing something that will set up one of your pre-planned responses.
Here's more detail about each kind of flirting:
TAKING THE INITIATIVE: Call her a name jokingly. Look at her funny. Be a little cocky. Active flirting is fun, but it's a little more risky early on in an encounter. It puts your intentions "out there", so you have to be pretty sure of the situation to engage in proactive flirting.
TRIGGERED FLIRTING: Triggered flirting can be even better than proactive flirting, because it appears more spontaneous and less planned. For instance, suppose she brags about herself. You could say, "That's impressive. You've just earned 5 more minutes with me." Reactive flirting can signal that you're quick witted and ingelligent. And, of course, it doesn't actually have to be spontaneous. You might have dozens of responses ready for common things girls say or do. It just has to look spontaneous to be effective.
TWO-STEP FLIRTING: Suppose you have a line prepared for when a woman bends down to tie her shoe or pick something up off the floor. And suppose when she does that you plan to say "Oh, I don't require people to bow down before me anymore". But suppose she hasn't bent down in front of you yet. You can wait and hope you have a chance to say your flirty line. Or you can set things up. How would you set things up so she bends down in front of you? Well you could secretly take something of hers off the table and put it on the floor, and when she notices and bends down to pick it up, then you could deliver your line.
Those are three great ways to engage a woman in playful banter. You can read more about all of them in the "Flirting Deconstructed".
You can say something flirty in a proactive manner.
Alternatively, you can appear to be much more spontaneous by waiting for her to say something that you are ready for, and then shooting back a flirty response that takes them by surprise.
And you can bait them into doing something that will set up one of your pre-planned responses.
Here's more detail about each kind of flirting:
TAKING THE INITIATIVE: Call her a name jokingly. Look at her funny. Be a little cocky. Active flirting is fun, but it's a little more risky early on in an encounter. It puts your intentions "out there", so you have to be pretty sure of the situation to engage in proactive flirting.
TRIGGERED FLIRTING: Triggered flirting can be even better than proactive flirting, because it appears more spontaneous and less planned. For instance, suppose she brags about herself. You could say, "That's impressive. You've just earned 5 more minutes with me." Reactive flirting can signal that you're quick witted and ingelligent. And, of course, it doesn't actually have to be spontaneous. You might have dozens of responses ready for common things girls say or do. It just has to look spontaneous to be effective.
TWO-STEP FLIRTING: Suppose you have a line prepared for when a woman bends down to tie her shoe or pick something up off the floor. And suppose when she does that you plan to say "Oh, I don't require people to bow down before me anymore". But suppose she hasn't bent down in front of you yet. You can wait and hope you have a chance to say your flirty line. Or you can set things up. How would you set things up so she bends down in front of you? Well you could secretly take something of hers off the table and put it on the floor, and when she notices and bends down to pick it up, then you could deliver your line.
Those are three great ways to engage a woman in playful banter. You can read more about all of them in the "Flirting Deconstructed".
About the Author:
T.P. (PhD) is the author of "Flirting Decosntructed". Take his free flirting quiz and learn how to flirt with girls at http://how2flirt.com
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