Before you head out sarging, it's good to have a few good PUA openers tucked away just in case. Don't worry about using canned openers. They're useful in that they can cause the girls to talk enough to get your personality into the spotlight.
These openers are tried and true:
The Female Opinion Opener - Why has this been around forever? Well, women have loved to give a piece of their minds since speech was invented.
This requires a little subterfuge. You need to act like you're out with your buddies and a controversy has arisen and that perhaps a woman could lend some information to settle the quandary. Approach the woman, excuse yourself, tell her the problem, then drop the question.
What topic will get a female opinion? Just about anything you can think of.
*My friend's lady is having problems with him. She's jealous of his ex. What should he do? *Why do women lie more than men, or do men lie more? *So, is it true that size matters? *My friend just died. His really sweet girlfriend is hitting on me. Is it okay for me to start dating her or should I wait awhile? How long?
Those are just a few examples, just about anything that promotes gossip will work.
The Robbery Opener - You can have a lot of fun with this one. Here's what you do: Approach a bunch of girls and say something along the lines of "Some friends and I are gonna rob the liquor store down the street, but our driver got sick. Could one of you pick us up in a couple of hours and drive us to the airport? We can cut you 5-percent on the deal, easy money."
Obviously the girls will recognize that this is all in fun; but they'll find it easy to play along with you for a while.
Start telling them about the plan. Let them come up with some ideas. One thing is, it sets you up to get a phone number. "I'll need a number to give you a call when everybody's in place." fits in so smoothly once the laughter and talk is going strong. Should there be some hesitancy to fork over the number, start teasing her about the big money and how it'll be easy. That should bring her around.
The You Suck Opener - I'm not sure who came up with this strategy. Be careful with this one. It's very effective though, if you can manage the strong push and pull maneuvering that's required.
What you do is approach the woman and ask, "Hey, you really suck! You know why you suck?"
If you've done it right, you've got her. She'll dart back and want to know why she sucks. So then you tell her: "Well, you suck because I've been waiting quite a while to approach you, but you're always surrounded by friends." Then start talking about anything.
The Flopsy Opener - This one is not so canned, it comes across as a little more natural. Wayne "Juggler" Elise named this PUA opener. One day he was out on the prowl in a local park and noticed that the ladies were excited about something. He looked a little closer and discovered that they were squealing about a little rabbit on a leash being taken for a walk by its owner. Yep, the girls were agog over "Flopsy" the rabbit out on a stroll.
So, the "Flopsy" PUA opener is just focusing on whatever has the ladies enthralled, move in and start talking about it.
Nothing rehearsed about this. Pretend you're at the mall and a pretty girl sits down and starts opening up a new iPad. Move in and say something like: "Hey, that's one of those new iPads. I'm thinking of getting one. May I watch as you open it?" Sorry, it's not slicker than that, but it doesn't have to be. This works the majority of the time.
Flopsy PUA openers are the best as far as I'm concerned. They work and you don't feel like you're reciting something.
When it all gets boiled down, the PUA opener you use isn't extremely important. Getting and talking to the woman is what it's all about. And it's what get's you noticed in the herd. Hey. Why not try, "Hi, my name is Rob, what's yours." It works almost every time according to one successful PUA I know.
These openers are tried and true:
The Female Opinion Opener - Why has this been around forever? Well, women have loved to give a piece of their minds since speech was invented.
This requires a little subterfuge. You need to act like you're out with your buddies and a controversy has arisen and that perhaps a woman could lend some information to settle the quandary. Approach the woman, excuse yourself, tell her the problem, then drop the question.
What topic will get a female opinion? Just about anything you can think of.
*My friend's lady is having problems with him. She's jealous of his ex. What should he do? *Why do women lie more than men, or do men lie more? *So, is it true that size matters? *My friend just died. His really sweet girlfriend is hitting on me. Is it okay for me to start dating her or should I wait awhile? How long?
Those are just a few examples, just about anything that promotes gossip will work.
The Robbery Opener - You can have a lot of fun with this one. Here's what you do: Approach a bunch of girls and say something along the lines of "Some friends and I are gonna rob the liquor store down the street, but our driver got sick. Could one of you pick us up in a couple of hours and drive us to the airport? We can cut you 5-percent on the deal, easy money."
Obviously the girls will recognize that this is all in fun; but they'll find it easy to play along with you for a while.
Start telling them about the plan. Let them come up with some ideas. One thing is, it sets you up to get a phone number. "I'll need a number to give you a call when everybody's in place." fits in so smoothly once the laughter and talk is going strong. Should there be some hesitancy to fork over the number, start teasing her about the big money and how it'll be easy. That should bring her around.
The You Suck Opener - I'm not sure who came up with this strategy. Be careful with this one. It's very effective though, if you can manage the strong push and pull maneuvering that's required.
What you do is approach the woman and ask, "Hey, you really suck! You know why you suck?"
If you've done it right, you've got her. She'll dart back and want to know why she sucks. So then you tell her: "Well, you suck because I've been waiting quite a while to approach you, but you're always surrounded by friends." Then start talking about anything.
The Flopsy Opener - This one is not so canned, it comes across as a little more natural. Wayne "Juggler" Elise named this PUA opener. One day he was out on the prowl in a local park and noticed that the ladies were excited about something. He looked a little closer and discovered that they were squealing about a little rabbit on a leash being taken for a walk by its owner. Yep, the girls were agog over "Flopsy" the rabbit out on a stroll.
So, the "Flopsy" PUA opener is just focusing on whatever has the ladies enthralled, move in and start talking about it.
Nothing rehearsed about this. Pretend you're at the mall and a pretty girl sits down and starts opening up a new iPad. Move in and say something like: "Hey, that's one of those new iPads. I'm thinking of getting one. May I watch as you open it?" Sorry, it's not slicker than that, but it doesn't have to be. This works the majority of the time.
Flopsy PUA openers are the best as far as I'm concerned. They work and you don't feel like you're reciting something.
When it all gets boiled down, the PUA opener you use isn't extremely important. Getting and talking to the woman is what it's all about. And it's what get's you noticed in the herd. Hey. Why not try, "Hi, my name is Rob, what's yours." It works almost every time according to one successful PUA I know.
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