Wondering how to begin an interaction or how to connect with women on the same night? If you want to take charge of the conversation so that it flows naturally in the direction you want, improve your observation skills. Some guys take these observation skills lightly because they think it does nothing to improve their seduction game. But read on to find out how this skill can be your main strength when you're in a club with a lot of competition.
Any social interaction demands you to be more observant. Paying attention to what's going on around you can help you detect which women are bored, about to walk out from an interaction or getting ready to leave. You will also see who's checking you out, which girls are the type to respond to your jokes and which girls are already taken.
When you're already in an interaction, your powers of observation will help you create conversation. You will seem like a mind reader when you figure out what kind of girl she is and then tell her what you think. Chances are, she will be impressed that you're very perceptive and this gives you credibility. You can also use this skill to qualify and tease a girl.
Here are some things you should pay attention to: the girl, the group and the environment. If the girl looks bored and the group situation is making her feel uncomfortable, you can suggest that you go somewhere more quiet.
When it comes to observations about her, you do not want to get sexual right away or she'll be gone quick. But one tangible thing you can talk about is height. Her smile is another thing. Clothes, jewels and accessories are all good. You must also notice her pose, how she moves and stuff like that.
In a group, observations you make can give you clues on how to become the center of attention. You can draw out the girl who isn't talking. You can start a parlor game that gets even the shy ones interacting. You can also sense out which girls are already into you. Observe who's closest to which guy, and which girl is probably feeling left out.
Your observation skills are particularly helpful when you meet women during the day. If you're at a mall, you can clearly see which girl is waiting for someone, and which girl is all alone reading a book by herself in the coffee shop. If you can observe everything at a glance and make deductions, you're ready to proceed with trying to hook up with a girl regardless of where you are.
Your observations tell you about her, and this can be very powerful. You can feel the pulse of the interaction quickly and know exactly when you can move in. Observing her body language will also help you understand when she's ready to be seduced. Being observant is definitely one of the things you should master if you want to learn how to connect with women.
Any social interaction demands you to be more observant. Paying attention to what's going on around you can help you detect which women are bored, about to walk out from an interaction or getting ready to leave. You will also see who's checking you out, which girls are the type to respond to your jokes and which girls are already taken.
When you're already in an interaction, your powers of observation will help you create conversation. You will seem like a mind reader when you figure out what kind of girl she is and then tell her what you think. Chances are, she will be impressed that you're very perceptive and this gives you credibility. You can also use this skill to qualify and tease a girl.
Here are some things you should pay attention to: the girl, the group and the environment. If the girl looks bored and the group situation is making her feel uncomfortable, you can suggest that you go somewhere more quiet.
When it comes to observations about her, you do not want to get sexual right away or she'll be gone quick. But one tangible thing you can talk about is height. Her smile is another thing. Clothes, jewels and accessories are all good. You must also notice her pose, how she moves and stuff like that.
In a group, observations you make can give you clues on how to become the center of attention. You can draw out the girl who isn't talking. You can start a parlor game that gets even the shy ones interacting. You can also sense out which girls are already into you. Observe who's closest to which guy, and which girl is probably feeling left out.
Your observation skills are particularly helpful when you meet women during the day. If you're at a mall, you can clearly see which girl is waiting for someone, and which girl is all alone reading a book by herself in the coffee shop. If you can observe everything at a glance and make deductions, you're ready to proceed with trying to hook up with a girl regardless of where you are.
Your observations tell you about her, and this can be very powerful. You can feel the pulse of the interaction quickly and know exactly when you can move in. Observing her body language will also help you understand when she's ready to be seduced. Being observant is definitely one of the things you should master if you want to learn how to connect with women.
About the Author:
Jon Sinn is the creator of the Seduction Roadmap, a groundbreaking program that teaches men all over the world how to seduce women.
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