Here's a big revelation about how to seduce women that most guys don't know - sharing about yourself and opening up is an important part of picking up girls. It's part of human being psychology; when you share something with another individual, they feel obligated to reciprocate and share with you. I'm not talking just about sex here, but about your conversation skills as well.
When we talk about sharing, we always mention storytelling. Stories are powerful because they entertain, reveal and invoke a specific response from other people. But your stories must not be all made up of fluff. You should include an honest part of yourself in every story you share. More importantly, you should weave your tales like she is a part of it. Women love to listen to guys talk about, if the story is engaging and if the story is relatable.
Keep the stories light and positive. If you can reinforce the good emotions and downplay the bad ones, you can create a rollercoaster of emotional feelings that gets her riled up in a good way. If she laughs, or asks some more questions, then you know she's into it.
Tell stories that talk about you as a person. We call these backgrounder stories because a woman can learn something about you and is entertained by the story at the same time. A story that gives some background about you will get her interested. For example, tell her you're fluent in French because you spend a few years with your family in Belgium. Or you can say you learned how to be more accepting of modern relationships because you have a gay cousin.
This story grounds me and justifies my manners. It shows why I'm more frank and women love a guy that is easy to talk to. You should come up with your own grounding stories, but make them something that women can relate to. That is the key to making them work.
You should also make use of questions. Everyone knows about the whole "bad interview" encounter, where you are asking her questions and she's giving you one-word responses like "fine" and "yeah." Well, the difference here is that you are sharing about yourself. The question's not just you asking her, but you giving out your own ideas along with hers. Your grounding anecdotes and sharing should be told alongside hers; that's how the reciprocity works.
Being open and giving out is a great procedure in how to seduce women. Most men don't like to do it since they want to look tough and self-confident, and they don't realize that women love vulnerable, direct guys who are easy to talk to.
When we talk about sharing, we always mention storytelling. Stories are powerful because they entertain, reveal and invoke a specific response from other people. But your stories must not be all made up of fluff. You should include an honest part of yourself in every story you share. More importantly, you should weave your tales like she is a part of it. Women love to listen to guys talk about, if the story is engaging and if the story is relatable.
Keep the stories light and positive. If you can reinforce the good emotions and downplay the bad ones, you can create a rollercoaster of emotional feelings that gets her riled up in a good way. If she laughs, or asks some more questions, then you know she's into it.
Tell stories that talk about you as a person. We call these backgrounder stories because a woman can learn something about you and is entertained by the story at the same time. A story that gives some background about you will get her interested. For example, tell her you're fluent in French because you spend a few years with your family in Belgium. Or you can say you learned how to be more accepting of modern relationships because you have a gay cousin.
This story grounds me and justifies my manners. It shows why I'm more frank and women love a guy that is easy to talk to. You should come up with your own grounding stories, but make them something that women can relate to. That is the key to making them work.
You should also make use of questions. Everyone knows about the whole "bad interview" encounter, where you are asking her questions and she's giving you one-word responses like "fine" and "yeah." Well, the difference here is that you are sharing about yourself. The question's not just you asking her, but you giving out your own ideas along with hers. Your grounding anecdotes and sharing should be told alongside hers; that's how the reciprocity works.
Being open and giving out is a great procedure in how to seduce women. Most men don't like to do it since they want to look tough and self-confident, and they don't realize that women love vulnerable, direct guys who are easy to talk to.
About the Author:
Jon Sinn is the creator of the Seduction Roadmap, a groundbreaking program that teaches men all over the world how to seduce women.
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