Of all the pick up artist techniques out there, nothing is more significant than conversation skills. I have heard that over 90 percent of communication is nonverbal, but my experience has proven otherwise. You've got to be able to keep the discussion going if you want to pick up attractive women. You're not going to get her to go out with you with winking and footsie alone.
Being Ready
It's challenging to keep the conversation going, so you need to prepare in advance. There are so many routines and stories you're going to use every time you go out. You can also mix things up by coming up with stories while you're on location. But it is definitely a good idea to bring something along to prepare ahead of time. You can start by bringing some notes with you into the field.
Of course, bringing a list to the club with you sounds nerdy, but every man I know - even the most successful PUAs out there - bring something. It might just be an introduction or some idea for conversational ideas in case the conversation dries up.
You have to be discreet about doing this. You can put your cheat sheet on your cell phone so that the woman won't know you're checking a list of conversation topics. When I run out of stuff to talk about, I pretend I got a text message and flip open my phone.
How to Prepare Your Conversation Material
Get ideas from the news. Your best stuff can also be from your past experiences with friends or with dates. As long as an anecdote makes for a good and entertaining conversation, you can use it. Sometimes, the best material for conversation simply comes out of nowhere. Be mindful of what inspires you to talk with a woman. It may be her hair, her eyes, a celebrity she resembles and other things.
You have to be well read. Good topics are always available, but you have to have something sensible to say about them. For example, what you see on TV are good conversation topics. But you need to be able to form an opinion about it. You can even talk about tattoos, Eastern philosophy and yoga, or any other stuff women care about. There's no substitute for good field research.
Keep tabs on your strong points. If you play a musical instrument, talk about that. Make sure you mention these things in conversation so that she will learn more about your good points.
The most significant pick up artist techniques entail learning methods to keep banter going, because that's something not everybody knows how to do really well. Research is essential for doing anything right, and it goes for talking to ladies too.
Being Ready
It's challenging to keep the conversation going, so you need to prepare in advance. There are so many routines and stories you're going to use every time you go out. You can also mix things up by coming up with stories while you're on location. But it is definitely a good idea to bring something along to prepare ahead of time. You can start by bringing some notes with you into the field.
Of course, bringing a list to the club with you sounds nerdy, but every man I know - even the most successful PUAs out there - bring something. It might just be an introduction or some idea for conversational ideas in case the conversation dries up.
You have to be discreet about doing this. You can put your cheat sheet on your cell phone so that the woman won't know you're checking a list of conversation topics. When I run out of stuff to talk about, I pretend I got a text message and flip open my phone.
How to Prepare Your Conversation Material
Get ideas from the news. Your best stuff can also be from your past experiences with friends or with dates. As long as an anecdote makes for a good and entertaining conversation, you can use it. Sometimes, the best material for conversation simply comes out of nowhere. Be mindful of what inspires you to talk with a woman. It may be her hair, her eyes, a celebrity she resembles and other things.
You have to be well read. Good topics are always available, but you have to have something sensible to say about them. For example, what you see on TV are good conversation topics. But you need to be able to form an opinion about it. You can even talk about tattoos, Eastern philosophy and yoga, or any other stuff women care about. There's no substitute for good field research.
Keep tabs on your strong points. If you play a musical instrument, talk about that. Make sure you mention these things in conversation so that she will learn more about your good points.
The most significant pick up artist techniques entail learning methods to keep banter going, because that's something not everybody knows how to do really well. Research is essential for doing anything right, and it goes for talking to ladies too.
About the Author:
Jon Sinn is the creator of the Seduction Roadmap, a groundbreaking program that teaches men all over the world how to seduce women.
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