Ambiance is a fancy word for something really simple actually. It means your environment or surroundings, and it plays a gigantic role in how to get to date you. Mood has a direct effect on feelings so it's something you need to pay close attention to.
Logistics is a big part of ambiance. You have to be comfortable talking and flirting before you can move further. Make sure she will be comfortable being in a date. If you meet her in a club, you have to take her somewhere private if you want to talk to her alone.
Ask her to leave the club with you. You can go to another place, or you can go home together. You can also take her back to her place. The important thing is that you are the guy she is seen leaving the club with. This creates instant rapport, and thrill inside her mind, making her consider what it would be like to be your girlfriend.
After the mini-date you had when you went out of the club together, you need to follow it up. Don't be too eager and text her daily. Once is enough, especially when you ask her when she's free. It's important to do this soon after your first meeting so that the memory of your interaction is still fresh. Remember this when you are stepping into a relationship with her.
Once you've got her home, text her and say something she can save in her inbox and keep reading until your next date. Don't rely on her memories alone to keep the interaction going. If you let her go on with her daily life too long without a reminder of who you are, she will forget the connection you had.
If you are going to take her to your house, also think of the ambiance of your place. Have some good lighting and music. Women hardly ever want to have a relationship in bright lighting, so have the lights low or light some candles. Make sure you won't have a roommate playing videos on the sofa. You may want to offer her a cold drink or something like that, but always keep the attraction going.
The experience of meeting you and being alone with you will help you get to know her more. Remember ambiance and mood when you're still figuring out how to get a woman to date you.
Logistics is a big part of ambiance. You have to be comfortable talking and flirting before you can move further. Make sure she will be comfortable being in a date. If you meet her in a club, you have to take her somewhere private if you want to talk to her alone.
Ask her to leave the club with you. You can go to another place, or you can go home together. You can also take her back to her place. The important thing is that you are the guy she is seen leaving the club with. This creates instant rapport, and thrill inside her mind, making her consider what it would be like to be your girlfriend.
After the mini-date you had when you went out of the club together, you need to follow it up. Don't be too eager and text her daily. Once is enough, especially when you ask her when she's free. It's important to do this soon after your first meeting so that the memory of your interaction is still fresh. Remember this when you are stepping into a relationship with her.
Once you've got her home, text her and say something she can save in her inbox and keep reading until your next date. Don't rely on her memories alone to keep the interaction going. If you let her go on with her daily life too long without a reminder of who you are, she will forget the connection you had.
If you are going to take her to your house, also think of the ambiance of your place. Have some good lighting and music. Women hardly ever want to have a relationship in bright lighting, so have the lights low or light some candles. Make sure you won't have a roommate playing videos on the sofa. You may want to offer her a cold drink or something like that, but always keep the attraction going.
The experience of meeting you and being alone with you will help you get to know her more. Remember ambiance and mood when you're still figuring out how to get a woman to date you.
About the Author:
Jon Sinn is the creator of the Seduction Roadmap, a groundbreaking program that teaches men all over the world how to seduce women.
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