Men and women are different in so many ways. That is a reality. Conventionally, women like to be wooed while men like to woo.
Women like it when men try to do the courting while men love the act of pursuing or 'hunting' for what they want. Even men, who claim to be enlightened with new human dynamics, would agree with this 'classical' or standard ways.
But more often, the tables turn and the woman become the one trying to impress the man. The man is given the obligation to decide if he wants the woman or not. And this is where a woman becomes rejected.
To be able to get a man, a woman should embrace her role as a 'selector'. While she can make efforts to stir a man's attraction, she must do this with utter subtleness. She must never become too obvious that she cares so much for the man.
'He who cares least, control the relationship'. This sentence is beyond what it literally means. So let me grill it down for you.
If you are taken away from the things that you like the most, like television or internet, you would like those things more, would you? If a person you like is taken away from you, you would definitely want her more, would you? Of course, the answer to those questions is 'Yes'.
Men and women, in general, want something that they are sure they can't control or something that they cannot have. So if you hover around someone, constantly demanding them to want you, they will feel as if you are trying so hard.
Usually, people look for people who do not give so much attention. Someone who holds a little 'self-preservation' is always attractive. But you should never be too preserved to become strict. A little hint will help to tease your love to like you.
Women like it when men try to do the courting while men love the act of pursuing or 'hunting' for what they want. Even men, who claim to be enlightened with new human dynamics, would agree with this 'classical' or standard ways.
But more often, the tables turn and the woman become the one trying to impress the man. The man is given the obligation to decide if he wants the woman or not. And this is where a woman becomes rejected.
To be able to get a man, a woman should embrace her role as a 'selector'. While she can make efforts to stir a man's attraction, she must do this with utter subtleness. She must never become too obvious that she cares so much for the man.
'He who cares least, control the relationship'. This sentence is beyond what it literally means. So let me grill it down for you.
If you are taken away from the things that you like the most, like television or internet, you would like those things more, would you? If a person you like is taken away from you, you would definitely want her more, would you? Of course, the answer to those questions is 'Yes'.
Men and women, in general, want something that they are sure they can't control or something that they cannot have. So if you hover around someone, constantly demanding them to want you, they will feel as if you are trying so hard.
Usually, people look for people who do not give so much attention. Someone who holds a little 'self-preservation' is always attractive. But you should never be too preserved to become strict. A little hint will help to tease your love to like you.
About the Author:
Get some help on how to win him back by checking out How to Get Him Back After a Break Up .
No comments:
Post a Comment