Obstacles are a great way to learn how to get ladies on dates. This is a tool that gets them excited. When you know that she is attracted, you are going to want to start turning her on and building romantic feelings. There are numerous verbal tactics for doing this. Barriers are a technique you are going to use later on like after you've already become her pal.
Barriers may be psychological or physical. Maybe there are other people around or you're in public. You can't kiss or hold hands, and you can't go any further than being friends.
You can say "If I wasn't this sweaty right now, I'd kiss you."
The reason that these work so well is that these barriers tease her. They turn her on and then just as quickly turn her right back off. Ladies are not like guys who turn on and off just like light switches. A woman's more like a dimmer knob. This banter push-pull is great for building slow and gradual rapport.
Do it so that you know what she wants and you're almost her boyfriend, but you're just stopping before the actual offer to go out. Part of the reason why barriers work so well is that they produce distance and objectivity. You're letting her get thrilled on her own terms so that she feels like she is in control of it. She can let herself get turned on while still be comfortable and not feeling threatened.
Romantically speaking, barriers are your friends. Women need to feel like they have the power to decide which actions to go for. For women, it takes long to build feelings. There has to be plenty of tension. You're teasing her without her knowing it.
The manner of this push-pull is what really makes it work. Remember that for girls, it takes slow and gradual building of feelings. There has to be lots of pressure.
A barrier can make or break your seduction plan, so make it work.
Barriers may be psychological or physical. Maybe there are other people around or you're in public. You can't kiss or hold hands, and you can't go any further than being friends.
You can say "If I wasn't this sweaty right now, I'd kiss you."
The reason that these work so well is that these barriers tease her. They turn her on and then just as quickly turn her right back off. Ladies are not like guys who turn on and off just like light switches. A woman's more like a dimmer knob. This banter push-pull is great for building slow and gradual rapport.
Do it so that you know what she wants and you're almost her boyfriend, but you're just stopping before the actual offer to go out. Part of the reason why barriers work so well is that they produce distance and objectivity. You're letting her get thrilled on her own terms so that she feels like she is in control of it. She can let herself get turned on while still be comfortable and not feeling threatened.
Romantically speaking, barriers are your friends. Women need to feel like they have the power to decide which actions to go for. For women, it takes long to build feelings. There has to be plenty of tension. You're teasing her without her knowing it.
The manner of this push-pull is what really makes it work. Remember that for girls, it takes slow and gradual building of feelings. There has to be lots of pressure.
A barrier can make or break your seduction plan, so make it work.
About the Author:
Jon Sinn is the creator of the Seduction Roadmap, a groundbreaking program that teaches men all over the world how to seduce women.
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