Social comfort is the required step in how to seduce women that comes right after the opener and right before the attraction strategies. Do not even consider beginning in on attraction until she's comfortable with you and considers you an ordinary guy who's cool to hang out with. Here are 24 ways to do this.
Utilize Questions. Ask her questions that you can change into conversational topics (not just the "bad interview" discussion).
Transitioning between one topic to another. Changing the subject and directing the conversation in the flow that you want as a prelude to your seduction is another good method.
Make Her Talk. The more she talks, the more she thinks she's having fun.
Talk About Yourself. Tell her about yourself and make yourself the topic of conversation (remember - you are attempting to build comfort only, so share).
Observe. See how she responds to the stuff you say and talk about.
Geographic References. Know what's happening in your city because this makes great conversation topics.
Current Events. You should also know about what's happening in the entertainment business so that you can stay updated. Women like talking about movie stars and Hollywood gossip.
Pace Your Chat. If the chat is getting stale, keep it going. If she's talking too fast, calm her down.
Interaction. Check if she's listening by looking at her and asking questions.
Connecting. Show her you understand how to relate to people and make ties.
Use Her Name. Never forget a girl's name. Always remember to mention her name when asking questions.
Chatting About Interests. Steer the conversation to what you are into.
Excitement. There's no substitute for energy when you need to make a conversation lively. If the conversation is getting boring, ask her to dance.
Positive Topics. If you open up a negative topic, you'll be shooting yourself in the foot. Don't let the smile leave your face and hers.
Flattery. Find ways to flatter her. Pay attention to her dress and her accessories and compliment her.
Give a Short Commentary. When you talk about something popular, give your opinions and don't just tell her something that she could read from elsewhere.
Hooks. These are topics that will compel her to respond. They're usually provocative, and will pressure her into giving a commentary.
Role Play. Pretending to be other people, or playing games can make her more attracted to you especially if she's a good sport.
Crowd Dynamics. Understand how to work the group and keep away from being cock-blocked. You've got to get them all comfortable with you or else she won't be.
Stay Relaxed. If you're uneasy, it will show. Moreover, your uneasiness can affect her.
List Topics. List some conversation topics and store the list in your cell phone.
Share Your Personality. Joking with her and giving her a taste of the fun that you can have together is a good way to build rapport.
These may sound like a lot but you can easily get dragged into a boring conversation if you aren't prepared. When you do these often, these will seem like second nature. These tips are essential in learning how to seduce women.
Utilize Questions. Ask her questions that you can change into conversational topics (not just the "bad interview" discussion).
Transitioning between one topic to another. Changing the subject and directing the conversation in the flow that you want as a prelude to your seduction is another good method.
Make Her Talk. The more she talks, the more she thinks she's having fun.
Talk About Yourself. Tell her about yourself and make yourself the topic of conversation (remember - you are attempting to build comfort only, so share).
Observe. See how she responds to the stuff you say and talk about.
Geographic References. Know what's happening in your city because this makes great conversation topics.
Current Events. You should also know about what's happening in the entertainment business so that you can stay updated. Women like talking about movie stars and Hollywood gossip.
Pace Your Chat. If the chat is getting stale, keep it going. If she's talking too fast, calm her down.
Interaction. Check if she's listening by looking at her and asking questions.
Connecting. Show her you understand how to relate to people and make ties.
Use Her Name. Never forget a girl's name. Always remember to mention her name when asking questions.
Chatting About Interests. Steer the conversation to what you are into.
Excitement. There's no substitute for energy when you need to make a conversation lively. If the conversation is getting boring, ask her to dance.
Positive Topics. If you open up a negative topic, you'll be shooting yourself in the foot. Don't let the smile leave your face and hers.
Flattery. Find ways to flatter her. Pay attention to her dress and her accessories and compliment her.
Give a Short Commentary. When you talk about something popular, give your opinions and don't just tell her something that she could read from elsewhere.
Hooks. These are topics that will compel her to respond. They're usually provocative, and will pressure her into giving a commentary.
Role Play. Pretending to be other people, or playing games can make her more attracted to you especially if she's a good sport.
Crowd Dynamics. Understand how to work the group and keep away from being cock-blocked. You've got to get them all comfortable with you or else she won't be.
Stay Relaxed. If you're uneasy, it will show. Moreover, your uneasiness can affect her.
List Topics. List some conversation topics and store the list in your cell phone.
Share Your Personality. Joking with her and giving her a taste of the fun that you can have together is a good way to build rapport.
These may sound like a lot but you can easily get dragged into a boring conversation if you aren't prepared. When you do these often, these will seem like second nature. These tips are essential in learning how to seduce women.
About the Author:
Jon Sinn is the creator of the Seduction Roadmap, a groundbreaking program that teaches men all over the world how to seduce women.
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