Love is sweet; no doubt, but when you go through a breakup, it turns into a very bitter pill. Arguments, misunderstandings, lack of compatibility creates a lot of issues and two people madly in love end up hating or despising each other. Some couples end up with no strings attached, but usually there are those that just can't give up and want their ex back.
I am amongst one of the people who couldn't give up on my ex and did everything possible just to be able to have in back in the form. I acted incorrectly in my pursuit of rekindling a relationship with my ex, and it worked out miserably. I was angry, hurt, depressed and had no self esteem left. The person I loved most hurt me the most. That was actually the impression that I had, but I had never realized that the one to have caused me the most hurt was myself!
I felt as if I was in a never-ending state of traumatic distress. Friends came over and tried to console me, but I as adamant on getting him back at any cost possible. Eventually, they too grew tired of my constant sorrowful nature. It was only when I read a book on relationships did I realize that what I was doing was driving him away.
I read that I had to use psychological tricks such as not giving him attention, ignoring him and learning to live my life independently was the best way to deal with the situation.
I learned that if you value your image, only then others will learn to value you. If you learn to love yourself, only then can you earn love in return. When I was miserable I mainly encountered pity, but did not get my very much loved ex back. To gain their trust, you must be ready to accept, and show them that you know precisely why the relationship did not work the first time around.
I am amongst one of the people who couldn't give up on my ex and did everything possible just to be able to have in back in the form. I acted incorrectly in my pursuit of rekindling a relationship with my ex, and it worked out miserably. I was angry, hurt, depressed and had no self esteem left. The person I loved most hurt me the most. That was actually the impression that I had, but I had never realized that the one to have caused me the most hurt was myself!
I felt as if I was in a never-ending state of traumatic distress. Friends came over and tried to console me, but I as adamant on getting him back at any cost possible. Eventually, they too grew tired of my constant sorrowful nature. It was only when I read a book on relationships did I realize that what I was doing was driving him away.
I read that I had to use psychological tricks such as not giving him attention, ignoring him and learning to live my life independently was the best way to deal with the situation.
I learned that if you value your image, only then others will learn to value you. If you learn to love yourself, only then can you earn love in return. When I was miserable I mainly encountered pity, but did not get my very much loved ex back. To gain their trust, you must be ready to accept, and show them that you know precisely why the relationship did not work the first time around.
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