Something that I've recently realized that makes you stand out from other guys in online dating, allowing you to get more responses, is sending messages when you are in a great mood.
You know women have some kind of crazy sixth sense with knowing what is going on with a man. I always knew they picked up on all kinds of things about us when dealing with them in person, but realizing it happens online was an eye opener.
Besides that fact, we can all probably agree that you would tend to come up with better messages being in a good mood, versus when you're not. Just like you'd probably have a better conversation with women in person while in a better mood.
I find that when I'm in this mood a lot of good things occur for me in online dating land.
First of all, things to say in a first email come to me much easier, and more naturally. My sense of humor comes out in the right way. I don't let all the little annoying things women might say in their profile get to me and discourage me from sending a message, or sending a throw away message like "What's up" that will end up right in her deleted folder.
Now, don't get me wrong here, even though your messages will be much better due to your mood, that doesn't mean you will always get a response back. Remember, there are also many things out of your control in the online dating world that could prevent a response.
That may be a woman being fed up with "Hey baby, ur so hot, can u send me sexy pics" messages. It could also be because she's met someone she's dating but doesn't quite want to shut down her account just yet in case it doesn't work...but she won't respond to anyone else.
However I think being in a good mood and writing messages could get you four or five messages out of ten. Compare that to getting none, or one if you're lucky, if you're just sending silly messages she will never respond to.
So there you go...all you have to do is always be in a good mood and you're set. Ok, ok, I know that's not realistic. If it was and I had the magic pill, I'd be chilling with Jay Z and Beyonce right now in the South of France. I'm kidding, of course.
I know you're not always in a good mood, heck I'm sure not.
Just take advantage of those times you are, and send out a bunch of messages then. If you're doing that along with the other things I advise, you should be able to spend the next few days responding to the many responses you're getting...
....and that should help you to extend that good mood for a while.
You know women have some kind of crazy sixth sense with knowing what is going on with a man. I always knew they picked up on all kinds of things about us when dealing with them in person, but realizing it happens online was an eye opener.
Besides that fact, we can all probably agree that you would tend to come up with better messages being in a good mood, versus when you're not. Just like you'd probably have a better conversation with women in person while in a better mood.
I find that when I'm in this mood a lot of good things occur for me in online dating land.
First of all, things to say in a first email come to me much easier, and more naturally. My sense of humor comes out in the right way. I don't let all the little annoying things women might say in their profile get to me and discourage me from sending a message, or sending a throw away message like "What's up" that will end up right in her deleted folder.
Now, don't get me wrong here, even though your messages will be much better due to your mood, that doesn't mean you will always get a response back. Remember, there are also many things out of your control in the online dating world that could prevent a response.
That may be a woman being fed up with "Hey baby, ur so hot, can u send me sexy pics" messages. It could also be because she's met someone she's dating but doesn't quite want to shut down her account just yet in case it doesn't work...but she won't respond to anyone else.
However I think being in a good mood and writing messages could get you four or five messages out of ten. Compare that to getting none, or one if you're lucky, if you're just sending silly messages she will never respond to.
So there you go...all you have to do is always be in a good mood and you're set. Ok, ok, I know that's not realistic. If it was and I had the magic pill, I'd be chilling with Jay Z and Beyonce right now in the South of France. I'm kidding, of course.
I know you're not always in a good mood, heck I'm sure not.
Just take advantage of those times you are, and send out a bunch of messages then. If you're doing that along with the other things I advise, you should be able to spend the next few days responding to the many responses you're getting...
....and that should help you to extend that good mood for a while.
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