This article is about an unfriendly term for a women who dates a rich man - the Gold Digger.
The gold digger is the woman who specifically seeks to date a wealthy, financially successful man. As always, these types of label are really unfriendly and do not help people find their ideal partner at all.
Lets have a look at reality. We live in a diverse world, a world where there are people who strive and are successful in a million variations of existence. The very definition of "success" changes as it is thought about by every unique person. One of these instances of success is the reality of abundance, of the wealthy. Such a reality has its own pressures, its own ups and downs. Just have a look at any gossip column if you think people who live in opulence live a totally charmed life. The reality is starkly different.
Being rich is not for everyone. Personally, I'd prefer a fulfilling life with my family than give the priority and commitment to career that many of the wealthy have. But that is just me. In our amazing world of difference and variety, there are people who can only exist with the benefits and pressures of such an existence. Living in such a reality is what brings out the best in them and is the reality where they can be "whole".
So why is it then, when someone understands themself, knows that this type of lifestyle is the one they need to be the best person they can be and goes out to find a partner who has a similar view on life, they are labelled a "gold digger". Its just silly. Once again, it seems people label other people simply because of their own intolerance.
The basic problem is that no matter what you do, people will want to interfere and shove their own opinions down your throat. They clearly haven't got enough going on in their own lives. If you know what your want, have the courage to go after it. Only you can say what will make you happy at the end of the day.
And forget about the detractors. Remember, their opinions usually tell you more about them than the people they are opining about.
The gold digger is the woman who specifically seeks to date a wealthy, financially successful man. As always, these types of label are really unfriendly and do not help people find their ideal partner at all.
Lets have a look at reality. We live in a diverse world, a world where there are people who strive and are successful in a million variations of existence. The very definition of "success" changes as it is thought about by every unique person. One of these instances of success is the reality of abundance, of the wealthy. Such a reality has its own pressures, its own ups and downs. Just have a look at any gossip column if you think people who live in opulence live a totally charmed life. The reality is starkly different.
Being rich is not for everyone. Personally, I'd prefer a fulfilling life with my family than give the priority and commitment to career that many of the wealthy have. But that is just me. In our amazing world of difference and variety, there are people who can only exist with the benefits and pressures of such an existence. Living in such a reality is what brings out the best in them and is the reality where they can be "whole".
So why is it then, when someone understands themself, knows that this type of lifestyle is the one they need to be the best person they can be and goes out to find a partner who has a similar view on life, they are labelled a "gold digger". Its just silly. Once again, it seems people label other people simply because of their own intolerance.
The basic problem is that no matter what you do, people will want to interfere and shove their own opinions down your throat. They clearly haven't got enough going on in their own lives. If you know what your want, have the courage to go after it. Only you can say what will make you happy at the end of the day.
And forget about the detractors. Remember, their opinions usually tell you more about them than the people they are opining about.
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Jayde Johannsen offers free dating advice for women and also, reviews about Dating Sites
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