We use body language all the time to say what we mean without having to say a word. We use unspoken signals to show that we're self assured, attracted to someone, or interested in a subject. The body language signals we send work in reverse too. You can show that you're not interested as well. You know how to attract someone with your body language. Do the reverse to show that you're not attracted to them.
If you're attracted to someone you make smoldering eye contact. This shows that you're interested in them and what they're saying. When you're not so interested, do the opposite. Look around the room when they're talking, watch the door for new people coming in, or look at the other people in a group conversation. This shows a lack of interest in the person and the topics of conversation.
Keep it short. This isn't body language but it is very effective in conversation. Giving short responses will quickly let your conversation partner know that you're not into them or their topics of conversation.
When you like someone, you get as close to them as possible. You lean in during conversation. You move closer when you're standing by someone. You touch the person as often as possible on their arm, or their hand. If you're not interested, do the opposite. Keep space between the two of you. If they try to get closer to you, step back a little or neutralize their efforts.
Standing and sitting straight is a signal of confidence. Standing stiffly is a signal that you're not interested or uncomfortable. A rigid pose shows that you aren't enjoying yourself and are not excited about whatever is going on, especially if that's a conversation with the person in front of you.
When you're not interested in someone, you can show that you're closed off to them with where you put your arms and hands. Crossing your arms makes you seem closed off. This sends the signal that you don't want to be approached. Another way to show you're closed off to conversation or advances is to hide your hands. Putting your hands in your pockets or your lap makes you seem less approachable or interested.
Closing your legs tightly is another way to make you appear to be closed off as well. It is literally signaling that you aren't open to someone. Relaxing your stance makes you look approachable. Looking closed off says keep moving, I'm not interested.
You wrinkle your nose when you see something disgusting. Do it when you're displeased in a situation or with a discussion as well. Wrinkle your nose when the person you're talking to is bringing up inappropriate topics or just talking on and on.
You never want to say something hurtful just because you're not interested in someone. Using body language is a great way to show that you're not interested without saying a word. Soon, you will both get to move on to more appealing conversations and conversationalists.
If you're attracted to someone you make smoldering eye contact. This shows that you're interested in them and what they're saying. When you're not so interested, do the opposite. Look around the room when they're talking, watch the door for new people coming in, or look at the other people in a group conversation. This shows a lack of interest in the person and the topics of conversation.
Keep it short. This isn't body language but it is very effective in conversation. Giving short responses will quickly let your conversation partner know that you're not into them or their topics of conversation.
When you like someone, you get as close to them as possible. You lean in during conversation. You move closer when you're standing by someone. You touch the person as often as possible on their arm, or their hand. If you're not interested, do the opposite. Keep space between the two of you. If they try to get closer to you, step back a little or neutralize their efforts.
Standing and sitting straight is a signal of confidence. Standing stiffly is a signal that you're not interested or uncomfortable. A rigid pose shows that you aren't enjoying yourself and are not excited about whatever is going on, especially if that's a conversation with the person in front of you.
When you're not interested in someone, you can show that you're closed off to them with where you put your arms and hands. Crossing your arms makes you seem closed off. This sends the signal that you don't want to be approached. Another way to show you're closed off to conversation or advances is to hide your hands. Putting your hands in your pockets or your lap makes you seem less approachable or interested.
Closing your legs tightly is another way to make you appear to be closed off as well. It is literally signaling that you aren't open to someone. Relaxing your stance makes you look approachable. Looking closed off says keep moving, I'm not interested.
You wrinkle your nose when you see something disgusting. Do it when you're displeased in a situation or with a discussion as well. Wrinkle your nose when the person you're talking to is bringing up inappropriate topics or just talking on and on.
You never want to say something hurtful just because you're not interested in someone. Using body language is a great way to show that you're not interested without saying a word. Soon, you will both get to move on to more appealing conversations and conversationalists.
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