Girls that you met last night at a bar or night club usually does not feeling the same way about you when you text them the next day.
Wouldn't it be cool if you could get her to feel the same way about you that she did last night when you two first met? (To learn more about when to text a girl you just met, check out my article on what to text a girl.)
There is a technique that can do just that and it's called, "Callback humor". It basically text messages that make her remember certain things that happened the night before and thus bring her back into that emotional state that she was in.
The girl that you met at the bar last night and the girl you'll be texting the next morning are usually very different. At the bar she was laughing and dancing and having fun. The next day, she might be doing laundry or dealing with some life problem. Because of this, she will be much less responsive towards you.
So by sending her a text message that reminds her of the fun stuff, you are able to call her back to the same state she was in when she was having fun.
Plus, the best part is that she will in turn associate that positive emotion with you. It's kind of like the whole Pavlov's dog thing.
So the first step to being able to do this is to actually show her a good time when you first met her. If you can't do this then at least make a notice of what is causing her to have a good time (a funny joke, a good song, etc).
This is where solid game comes in. This is where you use PUA techniques like Push Pull, or humor to create a positive feeling and build attraction. After all, if you want to make her remember the good time, there has to be a good time to remember!
Once you got that part out of the way, the next step is to send her a message that calls her back to that place.
Don't send something generic like, "hey, it's John. Sure had fun last night."
That message is not going stir up any emotion in her.
You want to be talking about a specific time or event.
Here's a good example:
"How fun was the party last night? Remember when you..."
This is a much better text message that will get her to remember what happened last night and get back into the same state.
Wouldn't it be cool if you could get her to feel the same way about you that she did last night when you two first met? (To learn more about when to text a girl you just met, check out my article on what to text a girl.)
There is a technique that can do just that and it's called, "Callback humor". It basically text messages that make her remember certain things that happened the night before and thus bring her back into that emotional state that she was in.
The girl that you met at the bar last night and the girl you'll be texting the next morning are usually very different. At the bar she was laughing and dancing and having fun. The next day, she might be doing laundry or dealing with some life problem. Because of this, she will be much less responsive towards you.
So by sending her a text message that reminds her of the fun stuff, you are able to call her back to the same state she was in when she was having fun.
Plus, the best part is that she will in turn associate that positive emotion with you. It's kind of like the whole Pavlov's dog thing.
So the first step to being able to do this is to actually show her a good time when you first met her. If you can't do this then at least make a notice of what is causing her to have a good time (a funny joke, a good song, etc).
This is where solid game comes in. This is where you use PUA techniques like Push Pull, or humor to create a positive feeling and build attraction. After all, if you want to make her remember the good time, there has to be a good time to remember!
Once you got that part out of the way, the next step is to send her a message that calls her back to that place.
Don't send something generic like, "hey, it's John. Sure had fun last night."
That message is not going stir up any emotion in her.
You want to be talking about a specific time or event.
Here's a good example:
"How fun was the party last night? Remember when you..."
This is a much better text message that will get her to remember what happened last night and get back into the same state.
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