When it comes to texting girls, most guys make a lot of bad mistakes.
The sad thing is, most of the time, these mistakes are very easily avoidable. As a matter of fact, I can think of 3 major bone-head mistakes that most guys (including you) are probably making all the time.
In this article, you are going to learn more about text flirting and the inner game of texting girls.
I'm going to tell you what they are and also how to fix them. Pay close attention and try to spot times in your life where you might be guilty of these mistakes.
Let's begin...
Text Game Mistake #1: Texting Her Too Often Without A Reply
You should never send a girl multiple text messages without her first replying back to your original message. This is only OK when the first message didn't go through.
Other than that, you should ALWAYS wait until she respond to your first text before you bombard her in box with more messages.
Why is this so important?
Because by breaking this rule, you are making yourself come off as a needy guy. Just like so many of the lovable losers that she'd interacted with in the past.
This will cost you major brownie points.
It lowers your value and gives her power over you. The more texts that you send without her reply, the more you are telling her that she is the prize and that you are working really hard to get her.
Hey, you two only just met. Just relax and take it easy.
Text Game Mistake #2: Being Boring With The First Text That You Send Her
With texting, first impression is very important. If you come off as boring, she won't want to talk to you.
Here's what most guys write with their first message:
"Hi, this is John from the club last night. I just wanted to say Hi, and that I really enjoy meeting you...blah blah blah."
That's not a good first message.That's boring. It doesn't compel her to respond back.
Here's something you need to remember...
You Are NOT Special To Her!
OK, maybe I didn't have to scream. Sorry about that.
But really, hot girls give out their numbers ALL the time to a bunch of different guys. That means she will probably not remember you. And if she doesn't remember you, she won't reply!
Instead you should say something attention grabbing that also relates to the time when you met her. Something like...
"Man what was the deal with that crazy guy on the dance floor last night?! I think he gave me a black eye - John"
Or...
"Oh my god. I just realized who you look like..."
This last statement is a guarantee attention grabber because girls are always curious about the way the look.
Also, by bring up something funny or interesting that happened last night, you not only remind her who you are but also pull her back to the emotional state that she was in when she met you (and having fun.) This is a very powerful technique and very important for building attraction (more on this in other articles.)
Text Game Mistake #3: Sounding Way Too Formal In Your Text Message
This is not 18th century England. Avoid messages like...
"Hi, it sure was good to meet you last night..."
Instead as yourself how you would talk to your friends. Think of how you would talk to your own friend. Would you tease them and crack jokes if they did something stupid?.
Instead of saying something like, "How's your day going?", you could say something like...
"Wow, I just had the craziest day. I don't think you can top it. How's yours going?"
This also makes her a little curious.
Remember our ultimate goal is to escalate the texts to this girl to a sexual level so it's best to start off with a playful tone, rather than a formal one.
You might think that these mistakes don't apply to you. But I've seen so many guys commit these same mistakes and...
Screw up their chances with the girl that they like.
Just heed these rules and you'll do great.
The sad thing is, most of the time, these mistakes are very easily avoidable. As a matter of fact, I can think of 3 major bone-head mistakes that most guys (including you) are probably making all the time.
In this article, you are going to learn more about text flirting and the inner game of texting girls.
I'm going to tell you what they are and also how to fix them. Pay close attention and try to spot times in your life where you might be guilty of these mistakes.
Let's begin...
Text Game Mistake #1: Texting Her Too Often Without A Reply
You should never send a girl multiple text messages without her first replying back to your original message. This is only OK when the first message didn't go through.
Other than that, you should ALWAYS wait until she respond to your first text before you bombard her in box with more messages.
Why is this so important?
Because by breaking this rule, you are making yourself come off as a needy guy. Just like so many of the lovable losers that she'd interacted with in the past.
This will cost you major brownie points.
It lowers your value and gives her power over you. The more texts that you send without her reply, the more you are telling her that she is the prize and that you are working really hard to get her.
Hey, you two only just met. Just relax and take it easy.
Text Game Mistake #2: Being Boring With The First Text That You Send Her
With texting, first impression is very important. If you come off as boring, she won't want to talk to you.
Here's what most guys write with their first message:
"Hi, this is John from the club last night. I just wanted to say Hi, and that I really enjoy meeting you...blah blah blah."
That's not a good first message.That's boring. It doesn't compel her to respond back.
Here's something you need to remember...
You Are NOT Special To Her!
OK, maybe I didn't have to scream. Sorry about that.
But really, hot girls give out their numbers ALL the time to a bunch of different guys. That means she will probably not remember you. And if she doesn't remember you, she won't reply!
Instead you should say something attention grabbing that also relates to the time when you met her. Something like...
"Man what was the deal with that crazy guy on the dance floor last night?! I think he gave me a black eye - John"
Or...
"Oh my god. I just realized who you look like..."
This last statement is a guarantee attention grabber because girls are always curious about the way the look.
Also, by bring up something funny or interesting that happened last night, you not only remind her who you are but also pull her back to the emotional state that she was in when she met you (and having fun.) This is a very powerful technique and very important for building attraction (more on this in other articles.)
Text Game Mistake #3: Sounding Way Too Formal In Your Text Message
This is not 18th century England. Avoid messages like...
"Hi, it sure was good to meet you last night..."
Instead as yourself how you would talk to your friends. Think of how you would talk to your own friend. Would you tease them and crack jokes if they did something stupid?.
Instead of saying something like, "How's your day going?", you could say something like...
"Wow, I just had the craziest day. I don't think you can top it. How's yours going?"
This also makes her a little curious.
Remember our ultimate goal is to escalate the texts to this girl to a sexual level so it's best to start off with a playful tone, rather than a formal one.
You might think that these mistakes don't apply to you. But I've seen so many guys commit these same mistakes and...
Screw up their chances with the girl that they like.
Just heed these rules and you'll do great.
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