Most men spend their time toiling away at bars and nightclubs trying to meet women. Sometimes they succeed. But, other times, all they have to show for it is a big hole in their wallet.
Why is this?
There are many reasons.
One, women at bars and clubs are superficial to the hilt. In this context, they are looking for their shining example of genetic perfection - think Brad Pitt's mug and biceps big enough to make Arnold Schwarzenegger blush. If you aren't "conventionally" attractive, it's a hard crowd to please. Many short, portly, poor or old guys find themselves ostracized from all the fun.
Two, women are focused on the outside appearance, not the inside. I knew a man who held a Ph.D in Astrophysics, spent four years helping the needy in Africa, and trekked all over Patagonia. You would think this was enough to pique a woman's interest. However, because of his large nose and small stature, women at bars wouldn't give him a chance to reveal his accomplishments - a sad but true story.
Three, many of the women in bars and clubs are drunks. They don't have a job, they don't read, and they don't know about the world. All they care about is getting drunk. I don't know about you but this doesn't seem like an ideal place for meeting a great girl unless you're an alcoholic looking for someone to share a bottle with.
Four, bars and clubs are noisy. If aren't blessed with model good looks, the only way to attract women is through your words. As Voltaire said, "Give me ten minutes to talk away my ugly face and I'll bed the Queen of France." It's kinda hard to talk away your ugly face when you have to compete against deafeningly loud music.
So if bars and clubs are out of the question, where's a good place to meet women?
Believe it or not, Laundromats. While doing laundry, most women are bored out of their mind. When a charming stranger sparks a conversation with them, it brightens up their day. You'll have a chance to parade your most attractive personality traits.
More importantly, you aren't competing against dozens of other men. Most likely, you'll be the only guy talking to her.
Why is this?
There are many reasons.
One, women at bars and clubs are superficial to the hilt. In this context, they are looking for their shining example of genetic perfection - think Brad Pitt's mug and biceps big enough to make Arnold Schwarzenegger blush. If you aren't "conventionally" attractive, it's a hard crowd to please. Many short, portly, poor or old guys find themselves ostracized from all the fun.
Two, women are focused on the outside appearance, not the inside. I knew a man who held a Ph.D in Astrophysics, spent four years helping the needy in Africa, and trekked all over Patagonia. You would think this was enough to pique a woman's interest. However, because of his large nose and small stature, women at bars wouldn't give him a chance to reveal his accomplishments - a sad but true story.
Three, many of the women in bars and clubs are drunks. They don't have a job, they don't read, and they don't know about the world. All they care about is getting drunk. I don't know about you but this doesn't seem like an ideal place for meeting a great girl unless you're an alcoholic looking for someone to share a bottle with.
Four, bars and clubs are noisy. If aren't blessed with model good looks, the only way to attract women is through your words. As Voltaire said, "Give me ten minutes to talk away my ugly face and I'll bed the Queen of France." It's kinda hard to talk away your ugly face when you have to compete against deafeningly loud music.
So if bars and clubs are out of the question, where's a good place to meet women?
Believe it or not, Laundromats. While doing laundry, most women are bored out of their mind. When a charming stranger sparks a conversation with them, it brightens up their day. You'll have a chance to parade your most attractive personality traits.
More importantly, you aren't competing against dozens of other men. Most likely, you'll be the only guy talking to her.
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